Monday, December 12, 2011

If my date shaved her head as a statement to cancer, shoud i shave mine for respect at the dance?

plus she is wearing black she looks like vampire pale|||Why is shaving one's head a statement to cancer? Many cancer patients aren't bald and don't go bald.





I was diagnosed with breast cancer 2 months ago, and there's no fear I'll lose my hair. Some cancer treatments cause hair lose (chemo often does, and radiation if it's given to the head/neck area.





If your date had cancer and was getting a treatment that was causing her to lose her hair, I could see her shaving her head and maybe some of those close to her doing the same in support...or if someone close to her lost their hair due to cancer treatement, it would be a show of support. In general, it's not much of a show of support if there is no one close to you that is bald due to cancer treatement.





Better show of support would be to help raise money for cancer research. There are over 200 types of cancer. Even if I were bald I'd rather you donate money to help find a cure for my disease...shaving your hair off doesn't really help anyone with cancer.





Do what you feel is right.|||if u want 2 shave ur head as a statement 2 cancer, go right ahead. if she wants u 2, n u don't rilly care either way, then i wud. but if u don't want a shaved head, by all means don't shave it. by the way, i don't think there's anything extremely attractive about guys with shaved heads. Was that helpful?|||Na. She's doing that for her not for you. If you try to mimic her without having the same beliefs as she does, you're just going to look like a tool. If she really does give a damn about breast cancer, she won't give a crap if you shave your head or not.|||I don't think shaving your head is a statement for cancer and I bet most people just think it's crazy/wierd and unjustified.


If you really care, make a donation, that's worth more than a bald head.|||If you feel as strongly as your date does, then by all means shave your head.





But only if you feel the same. And only if you're comfortable with the choice.|||Only if you share the same feelings toward cancer. She's not looking for your 'respect' or sympathy; she's making a statement for something she believes in.|||Get away, far, far away.|||you should do it if you really like/love her.. not for respect





and if you believe in fighting for cancer|||Yes, there is no harm in doing so, plus, hair grows back.|||if you think you should|||If you feel the same sentiment, sure.|||No, just point and laugh at her....|||if u feel like u want to for the cause NOT just beacuse she's doing it.

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